No One Told Us About This

Welcome. Do you feel sweaty?

Well Hi. I’ve been considering doing this for a very long time but have now just find some time to put it together. I realized in the past few years there are very few resources or safe spaces to scream for women going through Perimenopause.

I’m a big time internet researcher so I want this site to be a place to share information, stories, and be able to vent about all we are collectively going through at this time in our lives.

Links to hilarious instagram reels? Want them to be shared. A hilarious story about how you rage cleaned your pantry because your kid was being a jerk? Can’t wait for the play by play. Best tips on how to not wake up at 3am absolutely soaked in sweat smelling like a 6th grade boys gym locker room? A moisturizer that absolutely changed your life? SHARE IT.

Which brings me to my next parargraph, who the heck am I? I’m Becky. I’m 44 years young which means I missed being in Generation X by 6 months, I’m DEEP in whatever this fun phase of life is. I live in South but was born and raised in Upstate NY. I’ve been in the South (SC near Charlotte, NC to be specific) for almost 15 years now so I’m told that makes me an OG. I’m a Mom to an 8 year old boy, a wife for 15 years, a full time professional doing the corporate thing, and trying my best to balance all that this phase of life throws at me. I cope with sarcasm, an occasional garden gummy, cocktails, and a DGAF attitude alot of the time. I want to share my story and experiences because aren’t crappy experiences more hilarious and relatable when shared?